There is this girl I have been talking to for a time. I like her, and we also share some common ground. Recently she told how she is struggling very much with anxiety.

She’s worried people dislike her, worried about people only pretending to be her friend, people slowly losing interest. She is without exaggeration suicidal about it. More over I overheard her saying she hates people who are only interest in sex.

And here is the damned kicker, I am only interest in having sex with her. Normally when people talk about how they dislike people only interested in sex, I take that as my cue to leave. It’s totally fine they feel this way, but it also means we’re not compatible. However seeing how this girl is damn near suicidal about people pretending to like her, I’m not sure what to do.

If she’s not into one night stands that’s fine but that does mean I’m walking (I’m also not interested in any friendship). But I don’t want her to kill herself over it either.

  • MagicShel@lemmy.zipEnglish
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    7 hours ago

    Hey, I also use AI sometimes to help me say things I struggle with. I have some suggestions.

    First, don’t ask it to rewrite what you are saying.

    Second, ask it to identify things that are poorly worded, insensitive, have bad grammar, or misspellings.

    Third, take it’s feedback and edit it yourself in your own words.

    ChatGPT will often recommend verbiage that is emotionally disconnected, being either overly effusive or emphasizing irrelevant things.

    ChatGPT will always suggest edits even if you write something perfectly. I’ve fed it’s own output back in and it gave itself plenty of critique because it’s not wired to say, “looks fine.” At least not until you’ve done some back and forth editing and then, even if the text is garbage it will decide the edited result is much better than the beginning.

    It’s a handy tool to give you another set of eyes to look at something and to help you learn to write better on your own, but it cannot replace your own voice.

      • MagicShel@lemmy.zipEnglish
        3·
        7 hours ago

        The great thing about social media is even if you don’t appreciate something, maybe someone else will find it helpful. Which is why I made a public comment instead of a private message.