I think its one of those spectrum things. Preference <—> Fetish.

If you are interested in the person as well as the attribute, its probably more on the preference end, but if all you care about is the attribute, that’s when it strays into fetishisation?

Also matters how you express the preference. If your tinder profile says “women of colour only”, thats gonna come across more creepy than if you left that out, and just matched with whoever you found attractive.

I’m in Australia, only thing I’ve had issues with are archery stuff, which sometimes gets marked as firearms, which triggers our customs agents.

Aliexpress, you’ll probably find it for significantly cheaper as well.

When ever Im in one of those knick-knack stores, I like to play a game of “find the jewelry from Aliexpress”. Its usually the stuff claiming to be hand-made :(

Edit: Is this it: https://www.aliexpress.com/item/1005007016568231.html ?